Hi everyone.
Long time no write, I know. There have been some major changes since I last posted personal news, to begin with our daughter will have surgery at a later date, the reason they postponed it is because my husband suffered a stroke that left his left side paralysed.
He is the love of my life, my rock, my everything and I just can't imagine life without him. We have been together for over 20 years and like all couples we have been through some difficult times but we have remained strong because we talk, and most of all because we have fun together. I love his warm arms, I love his smile, I LOVE his blue eyes. When I look into my daughters eyes I see her daddy, the same blue eyes looking back at me and it brings a tear to my eyes to see that deep love and they both have a way of letting me know, "It will be OK." even when I wonder myself.
My world has been turned upside down, I have felt scared, alone, and quite honestly I relied on my loving man too much. He took care of everything financially and in many ways we were an old fashioned couple. I certainly don't think anyone person should pay all the bills in the event something happens you should know how to do this too. I was able to stay at home with our daughter, as many of you know she has down syndrome and her heart condition needs to be monitored very closely so our best choice was to have me at home, I know what to do in the event she needs help. I would never change that because she is our world and the sooner she can get help if she needs it the better. She has insurance because I have insurance and I am lucky enough to be healthy.
The medical insurance industry in our state SUCKS!!! They won't insure you if you have pre-existing condtions like, diabetes, or heart desease, and of course now with the added stroke my husband suffered it's even worse. In 2014 that's supposed to change but you know, we NEED help NOW! Anyway I rant too much and that could go on forever.. it seems to me that those of use who TRY to make a living in this world often times get the short end of the stick.
To make a long story short, my wonderful hubby is waiting for help that I have applied for to get him to an acute re-hab center where he can recover the use of his left side. They estimate that in about 6 months time he can recover and return to work, so it won't be this way forever.
For now we must move in with family because I can not afford to pay my rent and power, water, ect.
I plan to keep my shops open and I have a %50 off sale that will continue through the summer. I will try to put some new things in my shops but as you can imagine I must devote my time to getting my husband well and taking care of our daughter.
I will update you as I know more information.
I thank you all so much for your warm wishes and prayers, I know God has a plan for us and there is light through the darkness. It will be OK in time.
((hugs))
Kit
AKA Scrappin Wright
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
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1 comments:
Hunnie i am soooo sorry this happened to you :(
You know i hope everything will get better, my thoughts are with you !!
Huggles
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